I want to repent, but !!!!!!!!!

Praise be to God, we praise Him and seek His help and forgiveness,
It is Allah guides will not be misled, and not mislead Hadi, and I bear witness that there is no god but Allah alone with no partner and that Muhammad is His slave and His Messenger, but after:
, Allah commanded the believers to repent all: {and repent to God and all, O believers, that ye may prosper} Light / 31.
And a section of people to the contrite and unjust, and not then a third at all, the Almighty said: {and whoever does not repent, they are wrong} rooms / 11 and this time after which many people from the religion of God ensued sin and corruption has spread, so as long as one does not contaminate some only be protected from the evil God.
But the but God refuses to be perfected, its children, many of heedlessness and Rkadhm, and felt impeachment against God, and regretted the neglect and disobedience, so I went Rcaibhm Mimmp halves Manar repentance, and others fed up with the life of misery and miserable existence, and here they sense the way out of darkness into the light.
But in the way of a group of this convoy surmised obstacles prevent them from repenting, including what is in the self, including what is in fact the ocean.
And for that I wrote this letter hoping to be the clarification of the confusion and suspicion or detection of the statement of the rule and defeat the devil.
It contains the message on the front of the seriousness of sin lightly Fsharha to the conditions of repentance, then psychological treatments, and the fatwas of repentance supported by evidence from the Quran and Sunnah, and scholars and a conclusion.
And ask Allah to benefit me and my Muslim brothers in these words, and is sufficient to invite them valid or honest advice, and God forgive us all.
Introduction to underestimate the danger of sin
Rahmani know God and you that God the Almighty ordered His slaves to repent sincerely and Juba, the Almighty said: {O you who believe, repent to Allah with sincere repentance prohibition} / 8
And give us a respite to repent before the customers Alkatbon notation, he said peace be upon him: (The owner of the North, to bring the six hours - likely to be the Astronomical Clock, known, or is the length of an easy night or day, from the tongue of the Arabs - a Muslim does wrong, the remorse and ask forgiveness of God, delivered, and only wrote one) Reported by al-Bayhaqi in the great faith in the people and a man in a series of conversations the correct 1209. And out again after writing and before attending the term.
The bane of many people today they do not look forward to God and dignified, Viasouna types of sins for the day and night, including a range Bastsgar afflicted by sin, you see one of them despises in himself some of the minor, he says, for example: what harm or shake hands with a foreign look. Foreigners are the only incest.
And having fun in view of the taboo in the journals and serials, and some even asked lightly if he knows the sanctity of the question of how bad it? Is it big or small? If you know this actually happening Faqarn between him and the two effects of the following is true of Imam al-Bukhaari, may God have mercy on him:
- Anas, may Allah be pleased with him said: (You do things is the most accurate in the eyes of the hair, we prepare it at the time of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him from sins) and vices are the doom one to Hell.
- From Ibn Masood may Allah be pleased with him said: "The believer sees his sins as if he were sitting beneath a mountain that is afraid of him, but finds immoral sins Kzbab over on his nose, he said it so - the hand - it Vzbh"
It is estimated they now seriousness of the matter if they read Hadith of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: (Beware of minor sins, it is only such minor sins like the people who took the belly of a valley, came a stick, came a stick, even carrying away Ondjawa by the bread, although minor sins when taken out his doom (and novel) "Beware of minor sins, they gather on the man until Ihlknh) Narrated by Ahmad, Saheeh 2686-2687.
The scholars have stated that small it may be accompanied by a lack of modesty and indifference, leaving the fear of God with underestimated Reach Bkabair but what makes the grade, and for that small with insistence, and with great forgiveness.
We say this is the same: Do not look to the small sin, but to see from disobeyed.
These words will benefit them, God willing, honest, who felt guilt and failure and not in their transgression Alsadron Determined not to falsehood.
It is those who believe in the Almighty, saying: {Nbi servants that I am the Forgiving, Most Merciful} stone / 49, also believes, saying: {and my pain is a painful doom stone} / 50.

** Conditions of repentance and Mkmladtha

Word repentance is a great word, with deep meaning, not as many people think, words of tongue and then continue to sin, and hopes verse: (and ask forgiveness of your Lord and then repent to him) Hood / 3 find that repentance is something more than forgiveness.
Because the great thing needed to be one of the conditions, the scientists said conditions of repentance, taken from the verses and hadiths, and that said some of them:
I: cessation of guilt immediately.
II: remorse for what has happened.
III: the determination not to return.
IV: Return of the rights of the wronged, or patent application of them.
Some scholars further details the conditions of repentance, we will look at with some examples:
The first: to be left to God does not sin for something else, such as inability to him or its re, or fear of what people say, for example.
There is no person who refrains from sin because it may affect his standing and reputation among the people, or possibly expelled from his job.
The person who refrains from sin to save his health and strength, like adultery or obscene left for fear of deadly infectious diseases, or that it weakens his body and his memory.
The person who refrains from taking a bribe because he feared that the Mattiyha of the anti-bribery, for example.
The person who refrains from drinking alcohol and taking drugs to bankruptcy.
And also is not called repenting of the inability of an act of disobedience to the order beyond its control, Kalkazb if paralyzed and loses speech, or an adulterer if he lost the ability to engage in intercourse, or a thief who has an accident and loses his limbs, but to be of such regret and stop wishing for sin or to feel sorry for lose them like this the Prophet peace be upon him: (remorse repentance) Narrated by Ahmad and Ibn Majah, it is true of the Whole 6802.
And Allah sent down the helpless wannabe, saying the status of the actor, not to see peace be upon him said: (but minimum of four people, a man to whom Allaah has given wealth and knowledge, and he fear the Lord, and reaches mercy, and He knows God when really, this is the best houses, and a man to whom God note did not give him money, he is sincere in his intentions, he said: If I had money to have worked the work of so and so, it is his intention, Vojarhama both, and a man to whom God's money did not give him note of floundering in the money without knowledge or fear the Lord, and not reach the mercy, does not know God, it really, it Bokbut houses, and Abdel-God did not give him money or knowledge, and he says: "If I had money I would have done so and so, it is his intention, whether Vozarhma) Narrated by Ahmad, Tirmidhi and true carrot and stick ninth.
II: knowing the ugliness of sin and harm.
This means that repentance can not be accompanied by feelings of enjoyment and pleasure when he remembers his past sins, or that wishes to return in the future.
The leg may God have mercy on him Ibn al-Qayyim in his book, disease, medicine and the harmful effects of many sins, including:
Deprived of knowledge - feelings of alienation in the heart - and difficulties - physical weakness - and the deprivation of obedience - and the right pond - and the lack of conciliation - and anxiety - and bad deeds - and habitual sin - the sinner in God - and the indignity of people - the curse of the cattle to him - and clothing humiliation - and printing on the heart and come under the curse - and prevent the answer prayer - and corruption in the land and sea - and the lack of jealousy - and the loss of modesty - and the demise of the blessings - and the descent of curses - and terror in the heart of the sinner - and falling into the clutches of Satan - a bad end - and the torment of the Hereafter.
This knowledge of the harmful effects of sin to make it away from sin altogether, some people may move from one sin to another, for reasons including:
To believe that the lighter weight.
Because self tend to more and stronger desire for it.
Under these conditions, because sin is more affordable than others, other than the sin that you need to prepare and process, causes the capital available.
Because his peers and Khaltawh are committing this sin is difficult for him to differ.
Because the person may make a particular sin status among his friends too difficult for him to lose this status shall continue in sin, as happens to some heads of gangs of evil to have advised him to Magen Abu ALATAHYAH poet preacher and his mother Thtkh in sin, Voncd Abu Nawas:
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Third: to hasten a person to repent, so the delay of repentance is in itself a sin for which repentance is required.
Fourth: that the fear that lack of repentance, not sure that it had accepted, Vercken safe to himself and the plan of Allah.
V: Correction of what he has done the right God, if possible, as output Zakat banned in the past and to the right of the poor as well.
VI: that he leave the subject of sin, whether its existence it could get him into sin again.
Seventh: To die in sin to sin and this is accepted by the benefits of modern assassin cent will come of context.
And God says: (Day will be foes one to another enemy except the Righteous) decoration / 67. And couples evil curse each other the Day of Resurrection, and therefore you, O penitent Bmpharguethm and ostracism and boycott, warning them that their call is unable to Istjerenk Satan actions may become attractive for you to return them as a matter of calling them and you know you are not weak to resist.
There are many cases where persons returned to sin relations re-couples with the past.
VIII: Destruction of the existing taboos have such alcohol and musical instruments Kalaud oboe, or of images and movies and stories Forbidden rave and statues, and so should be broken down and destroyed or burned.
And the question off the penitent on the threshold of integrity all the clothes of ignorance has to be obtained, and how much of the story was to keep these taboos when repentant Nkosm reason for their return and to repent and misguidance after guidance, we ask God steadiness.
IX: to choose from fellow Righteous appointed by himself and be a substitute for bad companions and are keen to shave male and councils of science and fills his time to the benefit of even the devil can not find a vacuum that has to remind him of the past.
X: to convene the body to which the remuneration Oh profiteering energy in obedience to God and I'm checking the meat until it grows well.
Atheist Twelve: to be repentance before gargling, and before the sun rises from the west: The gurgling sound that comes out of the throat when you drag the spirit and intended to be repentance before the Resurrection, small and large for saying peace be upon him: (a person repents to God before their throats by God it) Narrated by Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Saheeh al 6132. "And peace be upon him: (Whoever repents before the sun rises from the west repents Allaah be upon him) Narrated by Muslim.

** Repentance great

We recall here a model for the repentance of the first generation of this nation, the companions of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him:
From Buraydah may Allah be pleased with him: that the goat bin Malik Aslami came to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him said: (O Messenger of Allah, I have wronged myself, and St, and I want to cleanse me convert him, when was the next day came to him, said: "O Messenger of Allah, I committed adultery and he rejected the second , sent the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him to his people, he said: (Do you know his mind is anything wrong? Otnkron something from him?) said: What we know, but in the mind, Salehina as we see it, came to the third, he sent them also, he asked him told him that he does not quite do not mind, when was the fourth dig his hole, and then ordered Faragm, said: came Ghaamidi, said: "O Messenger of Allah, I committed adultery Aftherni, and that its response, and when he was tomorrow, she said: O Messenger of God did not I am receiving? Perhaps you that I am receiving also echoed the goat , I swear I was pregnant, said: "(or not, so go up to give birth), he said: When I was born is dying child and in the rag, said:" This has generated, said: "(Go Vordaih even Taftmih), when Aftmth dying, child and in his hand a piece of bread, she said : is this, O Messenger of Allah may Aftmth, has eaten the food, pushing the boy to a man from the Muslims, then ordered by haf her to her chest, and ordered people to Faragmoha, Tribal Khalid Bin Al Waleed stone stoned her Vtndk blood on the face of Khalid Vsabha, he heard the Prophet of God in such a manner He said: "(Hey Khaled! Whose hand is my soul She has repented Tabha if the owner of Mix," which takes taxes "to forgive him) Narrated by Muslim. ordered by the then prayed over and buried.
In the novel Umar said, O Messenger of God stoned her in accordance then pray on it! He said: "(She has repented if divided among seventy people of the city and woes, and it found nothing better than the builders themselves to God Almighty." Narrated by Abdul Razzaq in his 7 / 325.

** Repentance erases what came before

Someone may say: I want to repent, but to ensure God's forgiveness if I decide I am willing to follow the straight path, but I have little sense of hesitation, even if I know that God will forgive me for?
I tell him what inside of emotions inside the hearts of people you of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him.
If you think in these two versions of the remains with certainty what is in yourself, God willing.
First: Narrated by Imam Muslim may God have mercy on him the story of Islam Amr Ibn al-may Allah be pleased with him, which included: "When Allaah put Islam in my heart I came to the Prophet peace be upon him said: the most basic right hand Vlobayak, held out his hand withdrew my hand said: The owner of O Amr? Said: I want to to stipulate a condition, he said (What do you require?): I said to forgive me. He said: (Do you not know O Amr, Islam wipes out whatever came before it and that immigration destroys whatever came before, and that Hajj wipes out whatever came before it?).
And second: Narrated by Imam Muslim from Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them: that the people of the people of shirk killed righteous, and weigh righteous and then came Muhammad peace be upon him said: "The one who says let him for good, even tells us that for our expiation, got the words of God : {Those who invoke not with Allah another god, nor slay such life as Allah has forbidden except by right, nor commit adultery and whoever does this shall face punishment Criterion} / 68. and got: (Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the Mercy of God).

** Does God forgive me

You might say I want to repent but my sins, too many did not leave some sort of immorality only committed, not a sin, imagined or not imagined only committed to the point where I do not know you could forgive me what I did in those years long.
I say to you, dear brother: This is not a particular problem but is a problem many of those who want to repent and remember the example of man face a question once he had begun the work of the sins of an earlier age and reached seven-year-old only has a long record of immoral actions, large and small, different types practiced with different people, young and old even assaulted the little girl, and stole several thefts and then say: repent to Allah, the Almighty, and I Otahjd some nights and fast on Mondays and Thursdays, and read the Holy Quran after Fajr prayer Do I repent?
The principle we have the people of Islam to go back to the Qur'aan and Sunnah in the request for rulings, solutions and treatments, and when he returned to the book and found the words of God Almighty: (Say: O my Servants who have transgressed against themselves, do not despair of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Turn ye to your Lord and surrender unto Him) Zumar Verse 53.54
This is the exact answer to the problem mentioned, a clear statement does not need to.
The sense that the sins will be forgiven more than that God is the uncertainty arising out of a person with a capacity of mercy of his Lord first.
And lack of faith in the power of God to forgive all sins II.
And the weakness of important work of the heart is to please III.
And lack of appreciation of the effect of repentance in the eradication of sin IV.
And answer all of them.
As to the first: it is sufficient Etbianh in the words of God: (and My mercy encompasses all things) norms / 56.
The second: it is sufficient to correct the hadith Qudsi: (He says that I am aware of is the ability of the forgiveness of sins forgiven him do not mind, unless it involves me something) Tabaraani in the great and the Governor, it is true of the Whole 4330. If it was his Lord in the Hereafter.
The third: is dealt with in this modern shrine is great: (O son of Adam, so long as you call me and to reach the clouds forgive you for what you do not mind, O son of Adam, were your sins to the sky, then Astgvrtne forgiven you do not mind, O son of Adam, if you're Me with great as the earth sins Then, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring forgiveness nearly as great) Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, Saheeh al 4338.
The fourth: it is sufficient to Hadith of the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: (repents from sin is like someone who is not his fault) Narrated by Ibn Majah, it is true of the Whole 3008.
And to all who find it difficult to forgive him Vuahch proliferating cite this hadeeth:
** Repentance killer cent
Abu Saeed Saad bin Malik bin Sinan Khudri may Allah be pleased with him that the Prophet of Allah peace be upon him said: (The one who came before you a man who killed ninety-nine, he asked about the most knowledgeable people of the land which indicates that a monk, came to him and said: "It killed ninety-nine can he repent? He said: "No, killing him, thus completing its one hundred, then I asked the people of the land which indicates that man the world, he said:" He killed one hundred can he repent? He said: "Yes, and prevents him from repenting, go to the land of such and such, the the people who worship God, worship with them do not return to your land, they land poor, Hence, even if half the road came to him the Angel of Death, Fajtsamt the angels of mercy and angels of punishment, she said Angels of Mercy: The repentant coming to his heart to God, and angels of punishment said: It does not work never good, the king gave them in the form of people, including appointed him - the verdict - he said: Measure the distance between the earthly Along whichever was lower it to him, they found him Vqaswa lower to the ground that he wanted to, grip angels of mercy) agreed. In the novel in the right (to the village was safe and started to inch closer to her family) and the novel in the right (then Allaah revealed to move away, and to draw closer and said: Measure the distance between them, they found him to be closer to him).
Yes, and prevents him from repenting! Do you see now, my want of repentance that the greatest sins of this man that God meant it, why despair?
Rather, it is my brother, greater than that, hoping the words of God Almighty: {And those who invoke not with Allah another god, nor slay such life as Allah has forbidden except by right, nor commit adultery, and torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection and he will abide therein in disgrace; Except those who repent and believe and do righteous deeds Allah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allah is ever Forgiving, Most Merciful} Criterion / 68-70.
And pause when saying: {Allah will change their sins into good deeds} Criterion / 70 show you great Fadlallah, said scientists here are two switches:
I: Bad attributes shirk Kibdalhm good faith and chastity, adultery and lying Ihsana honest and treason Secretariat and so on.
The second: bad deeds that they made deeds on the Day of Resurrection, and hopes verse: (Allah will change their sins into good deeds) He did not say every bad good it may be less than or equal to or more in number or how, depending on the sincerity of the penitent and the perfection of his repentance, do you see as well as the greatest of this credit? And see to explain this generosity of God in the modern beautiful:
Abdel-Rahman between Jabir from Abu long write-off stretching it came to the Prophet peace be upon him - and in other ways - "The old man had fallen eyebrows over his eyes and it supports on a stick until the hands of the Prophet peace be upon him said:" Seest thou a man work sin all of which leaves them a thing which is the left need not Dajp any small or great, but Otaha, in the novel, but deducted in his right hand if divided sin among the people of the earth Oobakthm any Ohlkthm does that of repentance? said: (become Muslim) said: "I bear witness that there is no god but Allah and that you are the Messenger of Allah. He said: (do good things and leave the evil abstain from God to you the date all of them) said: betrayals and Fjratne, he said: (Yes) said: Allah is the greatest still grow up until he left. Haythami said Tabaraani and al-Rabee and men Bazaar Men saheeh apart from Muhammad bin Abi Aaron is an active confidence, the complex 1 / 36 and said Mundhiri attributed in order to encourage good strong 4 / 113 and Ibn Hajar said in the incidence of the condition is the correct 4 / 149.
Here, you may ask repentant, he says: When I lost, I do not pray out of the religion of Islam did some good deeds do count for me, after repenting, or be gone with the wind.
Here's the answer: for loop that Hakim ibn al-Zubayr bin belt, told him that he said to the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: the Messenger of Allaah, what things you Othnt in ignorance of the charity, freeing slaves or kinship therein, be rewarded? The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: (converted to Islam to the best of what I said) "Narrated by Bukhari.
These sins are forgiven, and these evil deeds changed, and this ignorance Favors days to prove to its owner after repenting, what remained!

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